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What Love Is Not. By Yomi Owope

Hey Guys, remember when I asked the question "what is love" in my last post on marriage? Well, Yomi Owope sent me this. I find it profound and I think you will also. You can comment with what you think love is not as well. E.g "love is not...". Love is not the idea that I take your freedom in exchange for mine; it is not the fashionable remembrance of anniversaries and birthdays, nor is it the poolside dinner at Smith's with live music and the smell of fresh flowers. I will not tell you that love is the food of the eyes at the sight of light skin and long hair or the fodder for the mind at the whiff of Rabanne. I will not say that love must do for me what I did because of it; neither will one beg quittance of me for a deed done for love. Is love measured by the length of a fathers rod or the gleam of a wife's Gucci? Is it benchmarked by a Bishop's heavy holiness or the fiery fervency of the union leader?

When A Man's Fed Up...

I can't remember the last time I felt this heart-broken about an issue that didn't concern me directly... I have this friend, Joy (not her real name) who dated this guy Dave, (not his real name)for almost 6years. I mean these two were the perfect couple. I remember seeing them together back then in school and wondering how two people could be consistently inseparable for so long. Well, not only did they appear happy, Joy tells me Dave was the perfect romantic, loving, easy going boyfriend. And knowing my friend, Joy well enough as sharing similar qualities and values to Dave's, this was definitely a match made in heaven. You can therefore imagine how shocked I was to open a blog site some days back and see Dave's picture beside that of another lady (whom I'll name Grace) with an article about what a romantic proposal Dave made to Grace! Gosh, I'm still reeling from the blow! I immediately contacted Joy to find out what was going on and she told me Dave ...

A Constant Contest?

I have come to realize that in life, we are almost ALWAYS in competition whether consciously or unconsciously.Check out the following definition of competition from The Merristem-Webster Dictionary: “…active demand by two or more organisms or kinds of organisms for some resource in short supply”, emphasis on the phrase "in short supply". Have you ever wondered why on the average, we spend the first two decades of our lives getting an education? From Primary School, to Secondary School, to College, we study hard to graduate with good grades. During those years, we write exams, participate in sporting events, get into fights, play games and generally engage in activities that expose us to the concept of winning and losing. On graduating from school, we proceed to the labour market, where it would seem success is heavily hinged on competition. We compete against fellow graduates to emerge the best candidate for the job, we compete against fellow colleagues to get a promot...

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