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Just When We Thought Things Were Improving...* SMH*

With the discovery of N1b in Former Speaker of the Nigerian House of Representatives, Honorable Bankole's proxy account, and his subsequent arrest by the EFCC yesterday evening (5th of June), it is becoming clearer that even the younger generation in Nigerian politics are not left out of the gross mismanagement that has characterized government agencies and parastatals in Nigeria. Other pointers to Dimeji Bankole's self enrichment crusade are splashed all over the internet. As for me, what I find most amusing is the N10b UBA loan saga. Perhaps more outrageous than his actually signing for the loan, which he allowed to be squandered by some members of the House of Reps, is the blatant audacity he demonstrated in using the House of Representatives as a collateral for his loan. Talk about effrontery! Honorable Dimeji Bankole has since made a feeble attempt at pleading his case, stating that the said amount wasn't for "personal gain" and naming some of the membe...

What Love Is Not. By Yomi Owope

Hey Guys, remember when I asked the question "what is love" in my last post on marriage? Well, Yomi Owope sent me this. I find it profound and I think you will also. You can comment with what you think love is not as well. E.g "love is not...". Love is not the idea that I take your freedom in exchange for mine; it is not the fashionable remembrance of anniversaries and birthdays, nor is it the poolside dinner at Smith's with live music and the smell of fresh flowers. I will not tell you that love is the food of the eyes at the sight of light skin and long hair or the fodder for the mind at the whiff of Rabanne. I will not say that love must do for me what I did because of it; neither will one beg quittance of me for a deed done for love. Is love measured by the length of a fathers rod or the gleam of a wife's Gucci? Is it benchmarked by a Bishop's heavy holiness or the fiery fervency of the union leader?

I Cheat on my Wife...And It's Her Fault!

“The problem is that once a woman hears the two words ‘I do’, her attitude changes” he said to me matter-of-factly in response to my question “why do you think men cheat on their wives?” I was having this interesting conversation with Mr. Brian (not his real name) who had been married for over 15 years and well…has apparently had his fair share of extra-marital affairs. For me, this was an opportunity to take a walk in the mind of a type of man many of us are quick to judge – the cheating spouse. While I do not agree with everything Mr. Brian said, he made a number of valid points that I’d like to share. Of course he places 80% of the blame of the cheating husband on the woman. His premise is that once a man marries a woman, the woman’s attitude changes because she believes she has conquered him. She often abandons the precedents that she had set before marriage, forgetting that those old habits were the very reason the man married her.

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